Are Skinny People More Likely to Cheat?

I have been thinking about this lately because losing weight is a big adjustment for any relationship, especially a marital one.  I now weigh 184 pounds - am I more likely to cheat on my husband now than when I weighed 286 pounds?

My answer is not even NO.  My answer is that I am LESS likely.  When a person is heavy and miserable, their self-esteem plummets.  With low self-esteem, we are almost sitting targets for people who can make us feel better about ourselves, even if it is only for a minute.  With my increasing self-esteem, I actually feel like I am LESS vulnerable to passing flirtations and I don't feel so desperate for the approval or attention of others.  I need other people's buoying of my self-esteem LESS.  I can do it myself.  I can feel good MYSELF.  I don't need someone else to make me feel good about myself.  Does this make sense?

Sure, to a man, it may seem like more people notice me now and I get more compliments.  But I am less reliant on those compliments and thus less likely to be drawn in by them.  In fact, the only person who I care about noticing me other than ME is my husband.  His approval and attention is important.

I will continue to think on this topic - but I would love your feedback too.  Kisses to you all.