Monday, April 11, 2011

Looking for bones

My husband may be coming around.  He was SOOOO incredibly supportive this weekend.  Maybe he has finally realized that I am not going to get skinny and ditch him.  He seems to be obsessed with finding places on my body where he can feel my bones.  May sound a little crazy but I have been with him for 16 years and trust me, none of those were years where I had bones that you could feel.  I have to admit that I love it.  He runs his finger along my collar bone and up and down my rib cage and I just giggle.  I have been so scared of how he felt about me doing this - and so scared that he would not see me as attractive anymore (he was very complimentary of me when I was fat).  All weekend he told me I was beautiful and it was truly amazing the transformation.  He was downright lovely.  And truth be told, what he says and what he thinks matter to me.  I want him to be happy with me - and it looks like that just might be happening.
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  1. Lady Lap BandApril 11, 2011 at 9:45 AM

    haha that is cute. My hubby isn't like that but I am like that with myself I love seeing my collarbone the most and then feeling/seeing my hips second. Awesome!!! =)

    Breanne
    www.ladylapband.com

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  2. MandyApril 11, 2011 at 9:49 AM

    I have to say HORRAY FOR THAT! I was scared too. My husband and I have not been together as long as you and your hubby.. but honestly it scared me too and I now believe that he sees this as a good thing for him and me cause I am healthier, happier, and more energetic! Our life styles have changed! But for the better!

    The bones... I must agree! My hip bones now dig into the bed at night! And I am a tad bit grossed out by my collar bones! LOL.

    You look great though! Keep it up!

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  3. LylaApril 11, 2011 at 10:33 AM

    Isn't it great!

    My husband has always been supportive of me and attracted to me, but it is really nice that he seems to like the changes in my body a LOT. Glad yours does too.

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  4. CatApril 11, 2011 at 10:48 AM

    I absolutely love this post. Thank you for sharing it with all of us. I love that he's feeling more comfortable with your changing body and enjoying the changes along with you. Congratulations.

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  5. ErinApril 12, 2011 at 5:52 PM

    This post makes me smile :) I'm sure my hubby will be the same way! He makes me giggle already let alone when I'm 100+ lbs down!

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